CHEATING by spouses has become a huge set back and a threat to marriage. It has become a serious scandal against marriage and is responsible to possibly half of divorces ever experienced. Last week we looked at what one could do if they discover their spouse was cheating.
We are also failing to separate our love from issues and we mix things up and destroy relationships. But today, if you are still interested in your spouse, this is what Mort Fertel says and I concur.
The Bible refers to Christ’s relationship with His Church as a marriage. He is the bridegroom and the church is the bride and this relationship models the husband and wife relationship. It is a heavenly model of every marriage on earth.
It is heart-wrenching to hear of how many, married couples fix and sexually manipulate each other and still expect to lead a normal marriage life. Many bedrooms these days operate under heavy sanctions where husbands in particular are subjected to cruel treatment sexually.
TO every child there is no one like their father and no one is as strong as he is.
As we celebrate Father’s Day this month, let us take time to reflect on a few critical issues on fatherhood.
When you first saw your spouse, you saw their personality, their pleasantness etc, and this is what you fell in love with.
Marriage was never meant to be complicated and hard, as most of us experience. I think it was meant to be the most exciting and refreshing of all human relationships.
There are some vendors on the streets selling rat bait who have coiled a great marketing statement for their product. Ibulala khonapho khonapho/ inowuraya ipapo ipapo, meaning it kills on the spot. Insecurity does the same to relationships. It kills on the spot.
THERE could be many reasons why couples end up seeking fulfilment outside their marriage, but one big one is the inability by many couples to spend time together and get involved together in their lives and careers.